Archive for June, 2007

Ask Don’t Tell: How to Get Children to Think for Themselves

Friday, June 1st, 2007

Do you find that you’re continually telling your kids what to do? Brush your teeth, put your plate away, make your bed, don’t forget your hat, put on your shoes…sometimes the list feels endless.

I don’t know what it is about putting on shoes but I used to have battles with both my kids to put their shoes on. I remember one time screaming at Jake to put his shoes on because I had told him, maybe ten times to do it, and he hadn’t. He was playing or getting distracted or pretending he didn’t know how. Then I lost it, he burst into tears and his shoes still weren’t on. I’m sure the neighbours must have thought I was balmy yelling about shoes! Before I became a mom I would never thought that I could end up screaming about something so trivial.


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